Prescriptive vs. Descriptive Grammar

A Comprehensive Comparison

Vishnu Santhosh
3 min readMay 17, 2024
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Grammar is very essential to keep the right flow.

Writers show their true color sense of words through the grammar they use.

There are two kinds of writers here.

  • Those who follow the rule book to the letter — Prescriptive grammarians.
  • Those who adapt their strategies based on the battlefield — Descriptive grammarians.

Prescriptive Grammar: The Traditionalists

Prescriptive grammar is like the classic writer— He sticks to traditional rules and standards of what’s considered “correct” language.

This approach is about laying down the law, dictating the do’s and don’t of language usage.

It’s rigid, it’s strict, and to some, it might seem like the old guard losing touch with reality.

But here’s the deal:

Without rules, we’d have chaos.

Imagine a world where everyone just throws punches however they like in a fight.

That’s no way to train or to win.

For example,

Ending a sentence with a preposition is a move adopted by many traditionalists.

They’d coach you to rearrange the sentence to avoid this grammatical sin.

So, in a prescriptive world, the “correct” form of our example would be:

“To whom are you talking?”

This version avoids ending the sentence with a preposition, aligning with the rules that have been preached in schools and formal writings for ages.

It’s like throwing a textbook-perfect uppercut.

Descriptive Grammar: The Observers

On the flip side, descriptive grammar is like watching fight footage and analyzing what actually happens in the ring.

Descriptive grammarians focus on how language is used by real people in real contexts, not just what the textbooks say.

They document the language as it evolves, keeping track of new moves and strategies.

It’s dynamic, it’s current, and it doesn’t try to box anyone into old ways of speaking.

Descriptive grammar, reflects how people actually talk in everyday conversations.

It’s about the raw, unpolished truth of language in action.

For example,

From a descriptive viewpoint,

“Who are you talking to?”

is perfectly acceptable because it is how most people naturally speak.

Descriptive grammar doesn’t care about the “rules” if they don’t match up with reality.

This example shows that while prescriptive grammar holds onto traditional standards of “correctness,” descriptive grammar embraces the organic, evolving nature of language as it’s used in real life.

It’s not about ignoring rules but about acknowledging that language is a living, breathing thing that changes with the times.

Why Does It Matter?

Well, just like in fighting, understanding the rules can either be your pathway to power or your chain of restriction.

If you know the rules, you can break them effectively.

In language, if you understand prescriptive grammar, you can communicate with power in formal settings.

But embracing the fluidity of descriptive grammar lets you connect and resonate with people on the street, in the real world.

It’s not about choosing one over the other.

The most effective strategy, whether in language or in a fight, is to know when to adhere to tradition and when to adapt to the situation at hand.

Mastery of language, like mastery of combat, requires understanding both the rules and the reality of how those rules are bent and broken in practice.

Don’t limit yourself to one school of thought.

Be the fighter at writing who knows the traditional forms but can adapt on the fly to the opponent’s moves.

Be the speaker who respects the rules but can also slide seamlessly into colloquial conversation.

That’s how you win — in language and in life.

Love you — Vishnu Santhosh

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Vishnu Santhosh
Vishnu Santhosh

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